I feel sorry for everyone who’s married, and it turned out to be to a narcissist, someone whose heart is dead to love, compassion, or care for a fellow human, especially to their spouse.
Science says they cannot change. So as you pray and hope for a changed narcissistic spouse, be sure you are in a safe place. If your life is in danger, go to your parent’s house to remain alive. They won’t mind killing their spouse if they are a threat to their inferiority complex nature.
You cannot have money, and they want you to depend on them financially. They may have a lot of money yet cant withstand their spouse having a token or dime. You cannot have an excellent public appearance if you are married to these strange human beings. Your talents and divine gifts will drive them crazy, and until they squeeze them out of you, they won’t let go. In most cases, murder becomes inevitable.
If you have a good dress sense, you will always be in trouble with a narcissist spouse. In fact, they want you in rags instead.
I haven’t seen a changed narcissist. The only time they pretend to have changed could be when things are no longer under their control, and they want to gain them back. They will show soberness, just for that moment, but their hearts are still as poisonous as usual. Always vengeful, bitter, and jealous!
EVEN OUR CHURCHES HAVEN’T HELPED SO MUCH TO STOP THE KILLINGS OF OUR FELLOW BELIEVERS BY THEIR NARCISSISTIC SPOUSES. I suggest we start bringing in professionally trained therapists as Church counselors; it will significantly help.
A very deadly breed of Adam’s descendants; the narcissists.
Don’t get me wrong, friends; I know God can change anything, even narcissists; however, as you await their change, take cover for your safety, especially when you can already see the handwriting on the wall. I mean their threat to cut your life short, both verbal and nonverbal advances.